In a recent opinion piece, Amy Wu reflects on the cultural significance of the tradition of battling over the bill during family gatherings, particularly during milestone celebrations like birthdays. This discussion was sparked by a recent family gathering for her father's 77th birthday, which led to a spirited argument over who would pay the bill. Wu, an American-born Chinese, describes this ritual as a symbol of hospitality and social hierarchy within Chinese culture. The tradition has deep roots, emphasizing the importance of family connections and the roles individuals play within familial structures. However, economic shifts and inflation have made it increasingly difficult for seniors to afford large meals, resulting in a decline in these payment tussles. Despite these challenges, Wu argues for the value of maintaining this tradition, highlighting its role in fostering familial bonds and cultural identity. This commentary was published on November 2, 2024, in the South China Morning Post, and it resonates with many who appreciate the nuances of cultural practices in the face of modern economic realities. [301c0ce5]